More Joy - Family Joy
Family Joy
Whatever you see as your Family Joy (or lack of it) is what
you believe about your Family Joy (or lack of it).
That is a very big statement to swallow.
Read it again . . . this time read it slowly to fully absorb the
concepts.
Whatever you see as your Family Joy (or lack of it) is what you believe
about your Family Joy (or lack of it).
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What You See -
Is What You Believe
That is the way we experience life.
Which comes first the chicken or the egg?
Which comes first the experience or the belief?
Do you see something and then believe it because your have seen it?
Do you believe something and then see it because you believe it?
Author
Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
has written numerous fantastic books, the one most relevant here is
“You'll See It When You Believe It: The Way to Your Personal
Transformation”
I recommend all of Dr. Wayne W. Dyer’s books if you feel a
connection to one or many of them.
Follow this link to listen to a FREE Sample of Dr. Wayne W. Dyer
talking about "The Secrets to Manifesting Your Desires"
Manifestation
Takes Time
We live in a time space reality.
Manifestation takes time.
It may appear that some things happen very quickly, but they only
appear quickly when they match up with our current beliefs.
When you believe something because it naturally aligns with other
beliefs may you already have in place, it is very easy for a
Manifestation to come relatively quickly.
This is not always the case.
Sometimes we have to dig up and replace old beliefs that do not align
with our Desires.
What You Desire
Is Different Than What Others Desire
The idea of Wealth that I have is different from the idea
of wealth that you have.
The idea of Wealth that you have is different from the idea of wealth
that your best friend has.
Sometimes we look at other people in our life and ask the question,
“How is it that they have accomplished that, when I have not?
We
seem to want the same things. We seem to do the same things.”
The truth of life is that we cannot understand the Belief process of
another person.
We can work together and have similar beliefs, but we can never have
the same belief process.
Yes we can model successful people, but even when a whole bunch of
people learn the same success processes, they will experience varying
results because of their individual beliefs.
Back To The
Idea Of Family Joy
Whatever you see as your Family Joy (or lack of it) is
what you believe about your Family Joy (or lack of it).
Answer the following questions:
On a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being a little and 10 being a lot), what level
of Joy do you experience with your:
Mother? 1 to 10
Father? 1 to 10
Siblings? 1 to 10
Cousins? 1 to 10
Whatever your answer was about the amount of Joy you experience with
your family members is exactly what you Believe about your Family Joy.
How Can That Be?
“How can that be?” you ask.
How can it be that you are choosing your level of Joy (or not) with
your family members?
Remember that Manifestation takes time.
Whatever level of Joy you are experiencing is a result of what you
Believe over time.
Belief is a muscle you build over time by exercising that Belief.
The first time you say, “I believe something”, is
very much like the first time you work out at the gym.
When you say something the first time and it Manifests that day or
week, very often the Manifestation can be put down to one of two
reasons:
1. Aligned Beliefs
2. Coincidence
1. Aligned Beliefs: If you choose a “New Belief”
and it
already Aligns with something you currently Believe, it more easily
Manifests. By example, If you Choose a “New Belief”
that
you can draw very well with pencil crayons, and you already draw very
well with pencils, your “New Belief” Aligns very
closely
with something you already Believe. Thus you experience of
Manifestation comes more easily.
2. Coincidence: If you choose a “New Belief” and it
Manifests quickly the first time, but you cannot repeat the process, it
is coincidence. By example, if you Choose a “New
Belief”
that you would love a glass of water, and just after you have that
thought someone comes into the room and asks, “Does anyone
want a
glass of water?”, you could say “Wow, my belief
instantly
Manifested!” However, if you sat in the same place 100 days
in a
row, and Choose your “New Belief” Rarely would it
ever
happen again.
Belief Is A
Muscle You Build Over Time By Exercising That Belief
This is the same with your beliefs about your Family.
You build them like a muscle over time.
It can be very challenging to build a new muscle.
If for a long time you have believed that your
Mother/Father/Brother/Sister is ____________.
You will have to make a concerted effort to Manifest a new Belief.
It is possible.
Focus On The
Joy You See . . .
And forget about anything else.
You are only in control of your beingness.
You cannot control others. Even the so called “terrible
twos” show us that our children are in control of their life.
If you wish to experience more Family Joy, then be Joy with your family.
If you wish to experience more Family Joy, then Allow the Joy that is
present to be (even when it does not fit with your beliefs about Joy).
Joy is Joy.
Your Beliefs are Your Beliefs.
If your Beliefs Support your Joy and the Joy of others, then they sound
like they are going to help you get to where you want to.
If your Beliefs reject your Joy and the Joy of others, then
it’s
probably time to find some “New Beliefs” to Support
Family
Joy.
