More Love - More Family Love
More
Family/Friends Love
Our Closest Friends are quite often valued as highly or more highly
than family.
If Love is your Focus in your Core Relationship with God/Life/Energy,
everywhere you look you will see Love. Every expression of
God/Life/Energy as the people, places, things, and experiences of your
life will always and only be Love.
We only experience what we Focus upon in our life. All of
God/Life/Energy plays out our Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret Beliefs
about life for us to live.
Our Beliefs can be unconscious or Conscious. Conscious Beliefs are a
lot more enjoyable, because we Accept Responsibility for whatever is in
our life, and more importantly, what we are now going to do is
reference to what is Now Here in our life.
Family Love
Includes Some Special Friends Too
Our Closest friends are
usually grouped into our Family
Relationship Ring.
In the human experience, we don’t get to Choose our Family.
Our
Eternal Beingness Chooses our Family for all of the lessons we learn
through our shared interactions that fit what we wish to Learn.
We do get to Choose if we hang out with out Family though.
We do get to Choose our Dearest Friends.
Good Friends
Make Up For Bad Families
Nothing is bad or good
ultimately.
No family is bad or good ultimately.
No friends are bad or good ultimately.
Life Just Is!
We get to perceive everything in our own experience as we choose. We
can even choose one way about an issue at one time in our life, and the
exact opposite way about the same apparent issue at another time in our
life. We Choose and Create Our Own Experience as we see fit.
Challenges in
Family Relationships
You have kids to deal with,
parents (step-parents),
siblings
(step), cousins, in-laws, and the list of family by blood or marriage
grows and changes over time.
Challenges in all areas of life start when we Focus on what someone
else is being, doing, having, and experiencing in the outer six
Relationship Rings, over what is present within our Core Relationship
Ring.
Our Core Relationship with God/Life/Energy is the place where we Set
our Creation Vibration.
Every other Relationship Ring is a possible place where we can put our
Attention onto and Set our Creation Vibration (unconsciously or
Consciously) from.
If you believe that your brother/sister is a pain - you Set your
Creation Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your brother/sister is a Joy - you Set your
Creation Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your parents are selfish - you Set your Creation
Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your parents are Helpful - you Set your Creation
Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your kids are uncooperative - you Set your Creation
Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your kids are great children - you Set your
Creation Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your cousin is a challenge - you Set your Creation
Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your cousin is a Success - you Set your Creation
Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your in-laws are lazy - you Set your Creation
Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your in-laws are Incredible - you Set your Creation
Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your grandparents are poor - you Set your Creation
Vibration to Create that.
If you believe that your grandparents are rich - you Set your Creation
Vibration to Create that.
Success In
Family Relationships
All success in your outer
Relationship Rings occurs when
you
check in with your Core on every decision you make before saying
‘yes’ or ‘no’ to any decision.
By example, if someone in your Family Relationship Ring (your sister)
asks if you could do something for her, like keep a secret from another
member in the family, you would ask yourself how you felt about it
working from your Core Relationship with God/Life/Energy outwards.
Core
Relationship with
God/Life/Energy: How do I
feel about keeping this secret?
I feel good, because this secret doesn’t affect me.
Intimate
Relationship
with partner/spouse:
How do I feel about keeping this secret from my partner/spouse? I feel
good, because this secret in no way affects my partner/spouse
Family
Relationship with
Mother:
How do I feel about keeping this secret from my mother? I feel bad,
because I know that this secret affects my mother. How do I feel about
sharing this secret with my mother? I feel bad, because I know that
this secret affects my sister.
As a result I would not keep ‘this secret’. I would
tell my
sister that I can not keep this kind of secret for her, and at the same
time from my mother, because that feels bad to me. What feels good is
telling my sister that I can not keep this secret for her. My sister
would be disappointed that I would not keep ‘the
secret’
and she probably would not ask me to keep ‘secrets’
of that
nature in the future, because every time I would make my decisions from
the Core outwards.
I have a rotten Core when I make decisions on the fly without
consulting my Core and moving outwards in the decision making process.
When I make my decisions from my Core outwards, I will never have a
rotten Core. When I make my decisions from my Core outwards, I always
feel Whole and Complete in my Core.
“Secrets”
or “Surprises”
Secrets: any idea whose
Awareness hurts everyone involved.
Surprises:
any idea whose Awareness benefits/helps everyone involved.
Change In
Family Relationships
Stay true to what
‘feels good’ in your
Core, and
your Relationship Rings will fill with more ‘feels
good’
people.
Some times there is a falling out of Family Relationships.
Your Only Concern is knowing that
what
you
Focus on becomes your life.
If you like what you see and experience, continue to Focus on what you
like.
If you dislike what you see and experience, continue to Focus on what
you like.
Always and Only Focus on what you like, and you will experience what
you like. It may take time, but once you believe your vision without a
doubt, you will live your life without a doubt as you Believe.
