More Peace - Intimate Peace
Intimate Peace
Our Personal Peace informs all of our Relationship Rings.
When we build a safe shelter of Personal Peace within our Being, we
embody that safe shelter of Personal Peace in everything we are.
For many of us Intimate
Peace is one of the most challenging areas of life.
The primary reason we experience challenges in our Intimate
Relationship Ring is that we have placed our Focus on anything other
than Intimate Peace.
Peace is All There Is.
Anything else is All We CAN Choose.
Ask yourself, ‘when did you have the most success in your
Intimate Relationships?’
Most people will answer, that they had the most success in the very
beginning of the Intimate Relationship. Usually it is in this stage of
the Intimate Relationship that they are the most open to new ideas and
experiences. It is in this stage that they are happy and grateful to be
in the relationship. It is in this stage that they are certain that
everything will work out. It is in this stage that they are certain
this relationship is destined to be Great.
Can Intimate
Relationships Always Be Like This?
Yes.
When you are open to new ideas and experiences.
When you are happy and grateful to be in the relationship.
When you are certain that everything will work out.
When you are certain this relationship is destined to be Great.
As a matter of fact, the success of all relationships work in the same
fashion ...
When you are open to new ideas and experiences.
When you are happy and grateful to be in the relationship.
When you are certain that everything will work out.
When you are certain this relationship is destined to be Great.
The Best Focus
Within Intimate Relationships (NOT)
When Intimate Relationships begin to struggle, it is not
because
of the Relationship. Intimate Relationships begin to struggle when you
take your Focus off of what is working and place it onto what is not
working.
If you are concerned with what you partner/spouse is NOT doing for you,
your Focus Creates More of the Same.
If you are concerned with what your partner/spouse is doing WRONG, your
Focus Creates More of the Same.
If you are concerned with what your partner/spouse is FORGETTING to do,
your Focus Creates More of the Same.
If you are concerned with what your partner/spouse is LEAVING for you
to do, your Focus Creates More of the Same.
Your Focus
Creates Your Experience
If you wish to have an incredible life - Focus on the
Incredible
parts in it, and the Incredible parts you want to experience flourish.
If you wish to have an incredible Job - Focus on the Incredible parts
in it, and the Incredible parts you want to experience flourish.
If you wish to have an incredible Intimate Relationship - Focus on the
Incredible parts in it, and the Incredible parts you want to experience
flourish.
What Do You
Wish To Experience
In Your
Intimate Relationships?
More Love - Did you know that all the Love you ever
experience
is present within you Right Now? All you have to do is remember a time
you felt the most loving and loved and you will activate the Love
Present Within You.
More Success
- Did you know
that all the Success you ever experience is present within you Right
Now? All you have to do is remember a time you felt the most Success
and you will activate the Success Present Within You.
More Abundance
- Did you know
that all the Abundance you ever experience is present within you Right
Now? All you have to do is remember a time you felt the most Abundance
and you will activate the Abundance Present Within You.
More Peace -
Did you know that
all the Peace you ever experience is present within you Right Now? All
you have to do is remember a time you felt the most Peace and you will
activate the Peace Present Within You.
The Simplicity
Of Peaceful Relationships
Think of your most Peaceful Relationships. They may be
Intimate or they may be some other Relationship.
In all of your Peaceful Relationships, the Peace comes from your
Internal Sense of Peace. You know that you are Free to be who you are,
the other person is free to be who they are, and together you feel
total Freedom. Freedom to Grow (or not). Freedom to Change (or not).
Freedom to Move away from the friendship (or not).
In your most Peaceful Relationships you are Free and you Free the other
person from any expectations. When you do this you allow the
Relationship to be fluid in it’s growth and movement. This
approach fosters the most Peaceful Relationship - Intimate or otherwise.
What Makes A
Relationship Falter?
The most important aspect with Freedom for each of the
people
involved in Intimate Relationships is the Freedom to Choose what you
see and believe about the other person.
If you see any action, you can believe ANYTHING you want to believe
about that action.
By example, if you see your Intimate Partner out with your best friend,
you can believe that they are stepping out to be with your best friend
in an Intimate way - or you can believe that they are stepping out as
friends.
What you think does impact your Experience, usually not as Direct as
the above example.
If you think something that does not lead to the Success of your
Intimate Relationship - one time, rarely if ever does that lead to the
Failure of your Intimate Relationship.
If you have been thinking that something is different in your Intimate
Relationship, and that something Feels different, and you start to talk
and act differently in your Intimate Relationship, you will discover
that your Intimate Relationship most often begins moving towards an
experience of what you do not want.
And then when you Intimate Partner Steps Out with your Best Friend it
could be for the very reason that you feared - however it was not
because you thought it once. It is usually a result of your lack of
attention to your Intimate Partner through your thoughts, feelings,
words, and actions on an ongoing basis.
What Makes A
Relationship Succeed?
To Create Peace and Fulfillment in your Intimate
Relationship
you need only Think, Feel, Talk, and Act into the Relationship whatever
it is you wish to experience.
I AM not saying to ignore the signs you are experiencing - which is
what everyone does (at one time or another) until the Relationship
crashes and they say - “I don’t know what
happened.”.
I AM saying that you are always at Choice as to what you put into your
Relationship. When you make the effort to always put into your
Relationship the Love, Success, Abundance, Peace, Health, Joy, Freedom,
Fun, Sex, Wealth, and Relief, you will discover that is what you
experience and your Intimate Relationship will be an Incredible
Peaceful Dream.
