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Q. Is “The Secret” The Same As Creating My Own Life?

A. “The Secret” is one part of Creating Your Own Experience.

The great thing about films and books, like “The Secret”, is that they help to share the message to more people who are ready for that message, that we have a say in Creating Our Own Experience.

What “The Secret” points out is some of the many ways we deny our ability to Create our life, as well as some ways to Consciously Focus on Creating Our life.

As with “The Secret” or with our website (Unconditional Love Books.com), they are only tools in your toolbox that you can choose to use. Your life is made up of so many unique facets. Your life comes together and you Consciously make it moment by moment. There is no end to Creating Your Own Experience.

Your experience never ends. You are a Spiritual being Manifesting as a Physical Being. When this physical being passes on, you will be the same Spiritual Being.

Your External Beingness is God/Life/Energy.

We Are Life.

Q. How Can I Manifest More Effectively Using “The Secret”

A. Manifestation is a Vibrational Distance.

What is your Creation Vibration Set to?

Your Life Shows You What Your Creation Vibration was previously set at.

Any Secret in life, that helps you to feel better and more connect with God/Life/Energy is “the Secret” to you in that moment.

Some days I find that writing is my Secret. Other days it’s taking a walk, or a bath, or dancing, or singing, or watching a movie, or meditating.

We each have many different secrets in our toolbox of life. When we are stuck, we pull out a tool and try it, and then another tool, and another until we get the results we want.

Life is so much more simple when we are Aware that we have many tools to Choose from, and we take Action and use the many tools we have, as well as Allow any new ‘good feeling’ tool into our life when it is presented.

Q. What Are My Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret Beliefs?

A. Our entire experience of life is based on whatever we hold as our Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret Beliefs.

We may think that we believe something about our experience, but what we believe at our Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret Belief level always comes to pass.

By example, if I believe that I am Abundant, yet I have debt and experience lack of Abundance, then most often my Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret Beliefs around Abundance are set at debt and lack of Abundance.

To know what my Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret Beliefs are about life, I need only look at what my experience shares with me moment by moment. Whether my experience is giving me what I desire, or not, I know that I can Change my experience by Setting my Creation Vibration at what I desire over what I experience.

Let’s take the example of Abundance again. When we become Aware that we play a part in Creating Our Own Experience by whatever we focus upon, we begin to take Action in order to Change our Creation Vibration setting.

The concept of ‘what we believe becomes our experience’ is a simple concept.
The experience of ‘what we believe becomes our experience’ is a simple experience.

In fact we are the living results of ‘what we believe becomes our experience’ each and every moment of our life. This Creation Process is Called the Law of Attraction. Once we have firmly set any belief in place, we set our Creation Vibration at whatever it is that we believe, and that very belief becomes our experience.

Although the concept and experience of ‘what we believe becomes our experience’ is simple, and the understanding of this concept rings true to us at a deep and obvious level (we just know it to be true), the Conscious Creation use of this concept is too easily tried and denied.

To better illustrate this concept, I would like to further add one word to this concept ...

‘What we ABSOLUTELY believe becomes our experience’ is a simple concept.
‘What we FIRMLY believe becomes our experience’ is a simple concept.
‘What we TOTALLY believe becomes our experience’ is a simple concept.
‘What we UNQUESTIONABLY believe becomes our experience’ is a simple concept.
‘What we REALLY believe becomes our experience’ is a simple concept.

We can choose whatever word fits for TOTAL Belief. Each and everyday we experience what we believe Absolutely, Firmly, Totally, Unquestionably, and Really - in others words Our Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret Beliefs become our experience.

When people first become Aware of this concept and if feels true at a deep level, they easily and confidently give it a try. When it doesn’t work immediately and/or consistently, people easily and confidently become disillusioned with the same concept.

The concept works immediately and consistently, when we Absolutely, Firmly, Totally, Unquestionably, and Really Understand it.

So here is how it works:

‘What we ABSOLUTELY believe becomes our experience’. This is what you are experiencing every moment of your life, including Right Now. Your Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret Beliefs about God/Life/Energy are Manifesting as your experience. What you REALLY believe about Money is Manifest. What you FIRMLY believe about your Relationships is Manifest. What you TOTALLY believe about your Right Livelihood is Manifest. What you UNQUESTIONABLY believe about your Health is Manifest. And on and on our Creation Ability Goes.

This is how the Law of Attraction REALLY works.

Whatever we REALLY believe, we set our Creation Vibration at.

I like to share the idea that ALL THE LOVE you will ever experience in your entire LIFE is available to you Right Now. If you think of a time where you felt Pure Flowing Love and spend some time enjoying that memory of feeling love, in that moment you are Accessing that Love.

We are the Source of All That We Seek. We are the only Source of Love that we experience in our Relationships. Love does not come from the other person, place, thing, or experience. We always and only experience the Love within ourselves. We may think that our loving experience is a shared loving experience, but the Love we feel never comes from outside of us. We always and only feel the Love inside of ourselves. We have eternal Access to that Love. God/Life/Energy = Love.

When we Activate Love inside of ourselves, we set our Creation Vibration at LOVE. When we set our Creation Vibration at LOVE, only people, places, things, and experiences with the same Creation Vibration of LOVE see us and interact with us.

That is the reason that at different times in our life we have been so close to something that has happened (that we would have judged previously as ‘bad’), and it is like we had no clue about it when we were there. A simple example of this, we are LOVE, we are at a party with many friends, and we experience all the LOVE people at the party. Years later we are discussing this party with some people who were also there, only to discover that to the them the party was of anger, or depression, or boring. This is only one of the many experiences at this party. Each person will have a TOTALLY unique experience of this party because of their Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret Beliefs about it.

Q.How Do I Consciously Set My Creation Vibration?

A. ‘Whatever we ABSOLUTELY believe becomes our experience’. This is the simple concept that sets our Creation Vibration.

The concept of ‘whatever we ABSOLUTELY believe becomes our experience’ is a simple concept.
The experience of ‘whatever we TOTALLY believe becomes our experience’ is a simple experience.

The transforming of ‘whatever we UNQUESTIONABLY believe into whatever we NOW WISH TO REALLY believe’ is another simple concept that is easily accomplished when FULLY understood.

This is the basis of all life, I AM NOW HERE => I AM NOW THERE.

Or how do I make THERE =>tHERE => HERE?

Whatever you UNQUESTIONABLY believe is Now Here IS NOW HERE!
Whatever you NOW WISH TO REALLY believe is Now Here is NOWHERE!

Whatever you UNQUESTIONABLY believe is Now Here IS NOW HERE!
Whatever you NOW WISH TO REALLY believe is Now Here is NOWHERE!

Let those concept sink deeply into your Heart, Mind, and Being for they are essential to setting your Creation Vibration.

All of life is Created from your Imagination of life.

You only experience life within your Heart, Mind, and Being. It sometimes appears as if you experience life outside of yourself, however your perception of life takes place as whatever you Imagine about it.

You can Imagine based on WHAT YOU SEE.
You can IMAGINE based on WHAT YOU WISH TO SEE.

It’s your Imagination to use. USE IT for what you wish to see.

Let’s take a simple example of ‘what you wish to see’ over ‘what you see’ that you probably have Manifest easily in your life, and just as easily you probably over looked that you did manifest it.

Imagine one of the many times that you have been shopping for a particular item. A piece of clothing, a book, a CD, or any other thing you UNQUESTIONABLY believed you were going to find. In the store, you searched for it amongst all the other items. You did not see it. They had every other style or size imaginable, but yours. Yet you knew it was here. Perhaps you were guided to come into this store. Perhaps you just came across this section of this store, but no matter what you knew that it was here. You even had a sales clerk help you look - they could not find it. Still you sensed it was here. The sales clerk checked the stock in the computer - the computer said that one what here - still they could not find it. No matter what appeared to be you UNQUESTIONABLY believed that you were going to find it. When you were about to give up, another person, or the clerk, or you yourself, discovered the object in question - in plain site, or misfiled, but it was there. You UNQUESTIONABLY believed it was there and now it was found.

Now Imagine the same sort of shopping scenario, but this time you found yourself saying things like, ‘it doesn’t really matter’, ‘it could be anywhere’, ‘I don’t have the time to search today.’ or anything else that came to mind that doubted that you UNQUESTIONABLY believed it. You probably don’t remember that you said those things. However you know that your TOTAL belief about it was definitely different than the time you found ‘what you wished to see’.

To become a more effective Creator, you need to practice the steps to Conscious Creation.

1. Aware
2. Action
3. Allow

Sometimes you have to UNQUESTIONABLY believe.
Sometimes you have to UNQUESTIONABLY Act.
Sometimes you have to UNQUESTIONABLY Allow.

Each time you will UNQUESTIONABLY focus on whatever it is that you need to set your Creation Vibration to ...

Whatever you UNQUESTIONABLY believe is Now Here IS NOW HERE!

Conscious Creation means Consciously doing whatever is called for. Sometimes it is Belief. Sometimes it is Action. Sometimes it is Allowing. Sometimes it is Asking for help. When you embody thoughts, feelings, words, and actions that ‘feel good’ you get better at Allowing your good to Manifest as if by magic, effortlessly, totally, completely, and unquestionably.

You will play a Conscious Part, however it will be more you did it by Allowing yourself to get out of your own way.

That is what we do, we get out of our own way. We get rid of any Thoughts that deny what we want. We heal any memories and Feelings that say we don’t deserve. We Speak positively and only about the things we wish to Create. We Act towards our dreams and take Inspired Actions when they are presented to us. We Experience a magical life by being the Source of Magic that we seek.

Q. How Do I Align With ‘Fear’ or ‘Faith’?

A. Focus! Focus! Focus!

Every Moment is the Only Moment of Creation we have Access to.

Whatever we Choose to focus on (unconsciously or Consciously) sets our Creation Vibration.

Fear (Feelings Eroding Away Reality)
Faith (Feelings Always Inside a Truthful Heart)

We experience our life through our perception of life. We experience our perception of life always and only within our Heart, Mind, and Being.

Our Eternal Beingness that we call ‘I AM’ is the supporter of all we experience.
Our inner beingness that we call ‘I’ is the perceiver of all we experience.

The Feeling of God within each and every person is The Feeling of Good.
The Feeling of Good is Always Inside a Truthful Heart.

When we focus upon anything that denies The Feeling of Good in our life, we live in fear and our inner Feeling Erode Away Reality. The Reality that we all experience when we feel connected to All That Is expresses The Feeling of God within our Inner Beingness.

When we focus upon The Feeling of Good in our life, we also focus upon The Feeling of God and we live in Faith as we are connected to our Source of Feeling Always Inside our Truthful Heart.

I AM The Feeling of God.

This affirmation is not one of desiring/needing Faith.
This affirmation is one of Absolute Faith.

I AM (My Eternal Beingness is) The Feeling of God.
I AM (My Eternal Beingness is) The Feeling of Good.
I AM (My Eternal Beingness is) All That Is.
I AM (My Eternal Beingness is) God/Life/Energy.
I AM (My Eternal Beingness is) the Love, Success, Abundance, Peace, Health, Joy, Freedom, Fun, Sex, and Wealth I dream and define and demonstrate as I AM Creating My Own Experience.
I AM (My Eternal Beingness is) Creating My Own Experience Always in All Ways.

I AM (My Eternal Beingness is) ‘fear’ or ‘Faith’ (as I Choose with my inner beingness).

The Truth is that I AM (My Eternal Beingness is) Pure Potential Energy that forms whatever I place my Creative Attention onto. When I focus upon anything other than Only God/Life/Energy, I use the Pure Potential God/Life/Energy to form my experience as I Choose.

There is no ‘good’ or ‘bad’, there is Only What Is.
God/Life/Energy is What Is.
I may perceive What Is as being ‘good’ or ‘bad’.

For example, if I do not get a job that I apply for, I may see it as ‘bad’ in that moment. However, someone got that job, is that ‘good’ in that moment? Quite often when I look back in hindsight, when I did not get one particular job it was because an even better more perfect job came to me.

What about the example of ‘war’? If somewhere in the world, there is an experience of war, is that bad? From a perspective of being out side that war, I may perceive it to be bad. However, what about someone who is fighting in that war, against the powerlessness they feel, hoping to get some freedom in their experience, is that ‘good’?

If that example appears too ‘bad’, what about this example of ‘war’? Your kids battle with each other daily. Do you always step in, to solve their problems? Probably not. You may, if the family needs focus to get onto a particular activity in a short period of time. Is that ‘good’?However, most of the time you probably decide to let them find their own solution. And eventually they do. Is that ‘good’?

What about the example of ‘someone’ on the street disciplining their child? Do you always step up and offer advice? Probably not. You may, if this particular outer experience emotionally triggers something inside of you, and in that moment you feel that you just have to say something. However, I would venture to say that probably does not go over well, and you were even reminded to ‘mind your own business.

I would also venture to say that what really happened in this outer experience case activated your ego (emotionally guided opinions) perception around this issue, and that you only needed to Love yourself deeply and completely in your experience, until you healed your inner perception of this outer experience.

Further more, all of these example offer you the opportunity to heal your inner perceptions of What Is.

The Absolute Truth Is that God/Life/Energy is What Is in every case.
God/Life/Energy is Perfect Pure Potential Manifesting as our experience.
Life on Earth is Perfect Manifesting as our experience of Earth.
People are Perfect Manifesting as our experience of People.
All That Is Perfectly Manifests as our experience in Match to our Creation Vibration of ‘fear’ or faith’.

Some may say that this view of Life on Earth is selfish and cares only for ourselves.
I see this view of Life of Earth as the most selfless view available and it cares for All of Life.

All of Life is present for us to Love What Is. Always and Only do we Align with ‘fear’ or ‘faith’ in our experience, through our inner perceptions.

When we Align with ‘fear’, we set our Creation Vibration at ‘fear’ and ask to experience more ‘fear’.

When we Align with ‘Faith’, we set our Creation Vibration at ‘Faith’ and ask to experience more ‘Faith’.

Q. How Can I Attract More Of What I Want?

A. Focus = Attention = Intention = Attraction = Creation

What are you focused upon?

Whatever you are focused upon, that’s where your Creation Vibration is Set.

If you are Observing that your health sucks, that’s where your Creation Vibration is Set.
If you are Observing that your health’s amazing, that’s where your Creation Vibration is Set.

If you are Observing that your relationship sucks, that’s where your Creation Vibration is Set.
If you are Observing that your relationship’s amazing, that’s where your Creation Vibration is Set.

If you are Observing that your kids sucks, that’s where your Creation Vibration is Set.
If you are Observing that your kids are amazing, that’s where your Creation Vibration is Set.

If you are Observing that your work sucks, that’s where your Creation Vibration is Set.
If you are Observing that your work’s amazing, that’s where your Creation Vibration is Set.

If you wish to experience your life differently, become AWARE of where you are Observing and where your Creation Vibration is Set.

Observing What Is can be one option in your experience.
Imagining What You Wish can be another option in your experience.

Take time daily to Consciously Activate your Creation Vibration by Imagining What You Wish. Only you can Consciously Activate your Creation Vibration by Imagining What You Wish. Only you are Creating Your Own Experience. Only you can Consciously Attract More Of Whatever You Choose.

Focus = Attention = Intention = Attraction = Creation

Focus Only on what you wish to experience.

Q. How Can I Clearly Understand ‘I Give’ and ‘Give Me’.

A. In the Creation Vibration Relationship Rings Model, whatever I Set as my Core Vibration goes out into my world experience and Attracts more of the same for me to experience.

When I place ‘I Give’ into my Core, then each and everyone of my Relationship Rings mirrors my Core of ‘I Give’.

Example 1: ‘I Give’

Core: ‘I Give’
Intimate Relationship Say to me: ‘I Give’
Family Relationships Say to me: ‘I Give’
Friend/Work Relationships Say to me: ‘I Give’
Community Relationships Say to me: ‘I Give’
Country Relationships Say to me: ‘I Give’
World Relationships Say to me: ‘I Give’

Example 2: ‘Give Me’

Core: ‘Give Me’
Intimate Relationship Say to me: ‘Give Me’
Family Relationships Say to me: ‘Give Me’
Friend/Work Relationships Say to me: ‘Give Me’
Community Relationships Say to me: ‘Give Me’
Country Relationships Say to me: ‘Give Me’
World Relationships Say to me: ‘Give Me’

Example 3: (Whatever I place in my Core) ‘Help Me’ ‘Screw You’ ‘I Love You’

Core: ‘Help Me’ ‘Screw You’ ‘I Love You’
Intimate Relationship Say to me: ‘Help Me’ ‘Screw You’ ‘I Love You’
Family Relationships Say to me: ‘Help Me’ ‘Screw You’ ‘I Love You’
Friend/Work Relationships Say to me: ‘Help Me’ ‘Screw You’ ‘I Love You’
Community Relationships Say to me: ‘Help Me’ ‘Screw You’ ‘I Love You’
Country Relationships Say to me: ‘Help Me’ ‘Screw You’ ‘I Love You’
World Relationships Say to me: ‘Help Me’ ‘Screw You’ ‘I Love You’

All That Is, All of Life, All people, place, things, and experiences mirror what you believe in your Core.

Q. How Are Others A Mirror To What I AM Attracting?

A. The last question reminded you that whatever you set in your Core is reflected in all your Relationship Rings.

This question reminds you that whatever you see in your Relationship Rings, mirrors a belief you have in your Core.

Example 1 My Core Relationship: ‘Money Problems! Health Problems! Will they never end?’
This Example shows me that my Core Belief is set at: ‘Money Problems! Health Problems! Will they never end?’

Example 2 My Intimate Relationship: ‘Why do we keep arguing over this same thing?’
This Example shows me that my Core Belief is set at: ‘Why do we keep arguing over this same thing?’

Example 3 My Family Relationships: ‘My kids keep fighting. My parents blame me. My Brothers a cheat.’
This Example shows me that my Core Belief is set at: ‘My kids keep fighting. My parents blame me. My Brothers a cheat.’

Example 4 Friends/Work Relationships: ‘Why do crazy people keep coming into my work?’
This Example shows me that my Core Belief is set at: ‘Why do crazy people keep coming into my work?’

Example 5 Community Relationships: ‘Can you believe the activist groups here.’
This Example shows me that my Core Belief is set at: ‘Can you believe the activist groups here.’

Example 6 Country Relationships: ‘Politicians never change anything once in power.’
This Example shows me that my Core Belief is set at: ‘Politicians never change anything once in power.’

Example 7 World Relationships: ‘That war overseas is a damn shame.’
This Example shows me that my Core Belief is set at: ‘That war overseas is a damn shame.’

Whatever is in my outer world experience helps me to see what my Core Beliefs at set at.

The purpose of everything in my outer world, is that it is there for me providing me with an opportunity to love my world and heal my Core Beliefs that Observe anything other than God/Life/Energy in my experience.

Hell is my inability to control and change and love whatever is now here.
Heaven is my Ability to Allow and Accept and Love whatever is now here.

Example 1 My Core Relationship: ‘Money Problems! Health Problems! Will they never end?’
Consciously Set to: ‘Money flows to me.’ ‘Radiant Health and Beauty is my nature.’

Example 2 My Intimate Relationship: ‘Why do we keep arguing over this same thing?’
Consciously Set to: ‘I love that we have strong varying opinions that keep our life adventurous.’

Example 3 My Family Relationships: ‘My kids keep fighting. My parents blame me. My Brothers a cheat.’
Consciously Set to: ‘My kids always find a solution.’ ‘My parents love me.’ ‘My brother is finding his way.’

Example 4 Friends/Work Relationships: ‘Why do crazy people keep coming into my work?’
Consciously Set to: ‘This person needs love, just like everyone else. Have a great day.’

Example 5 Community Relationships: ‘Can you believe the activist groups here.’
Consciously Set to: ‘Living in a free country is awesome. We all add to the diversity here.’

Example 6 Country Relationships: ‘Politicians never change anything once in power.’
Consciously Set to: ‘Politicians do the best they can with what they got. Bless them all.’

Example 7 World Relationships: ‘That war overseas is a damn shame.’
Consciously Set to: ‘That was overseas is what it is. I know that a peaceful resolution is coming.’

Each example when refocused sets the energy of life in motion to manifest our Beliefs. When we choose new Core Beliefs, we start to see examples in our life that mirror our newest beliefs.