More Sex - Selfish And Selfless Sex
Selfish and Selfless Sex
All of life is experience could be called Selfish.
There is no other way than for us to experience life through the
perspective of Self.
We can say that we are doing things in a Selfless manner, but is it
really Selfless?
We can say that we are doing thing for others, but is it not our
Selfish Choice to do it for others.
This concept can and will be argued upon by people who want to take
issue with the words.
Let’s
Focus On The Concept
There is no other way than for us to experience life
through the perspective of Self.
All of our decisions are Self-THRU.
Each and every decision any person makes is directed Self-THRU.
There is no other way that we can direct a decision. We only have
control over (or the possibility to have control over) our thoughts,
feelings, words, and actions.
Self-THRU =
Selfish
For our concept building, let’s say that all
decisions that we direct through our self are Self-THRU or are Selfish.
Selfish is not thinking only of oneself, selfish is only directing our
energy Sel-THRU.
There is no other way we can direct our God/Life/Energy.
It only depends on the reason we direct our Energy.
If we do it for the Glory of God, it is far different than if we direct
it for the Glory of Man.
How Does This
Work In Our Human Experience?
So how exactly does this work?
When we are our most Selfish, or rather we are at our most Conscious
Self-THRU, then we do things for the Glory of God.
When we are our most Self-THRU, the choices we make naturally please
ourselves.
When we focus on pleasing ourselves in life, then the people that are
attracted into our lives do the same thing.
This is not about pleasing ourselves, rather this is about doing what
pleases us, and through being joyful with what pleases us, we attract
and are matched up with what pleases the other people in our lives.
How Does This
Work In Our Sexual Experience?
This works the same way in our Intimate Sexual Experience.
Our Intimate Partner is a match to our Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret
Beliefs about an Intimate Relationship (Consciously or Unconsciously).
When we focus on pleasing ourselves in life, then the people that are
attracted into our lives do the same.
This is not about pleasing just ourselves, rather this is about doing
what pleases us, and through being joyful with what pleases us, we
attract and are matched up with what pleases the Intimate partner in
our lives.
Selfish Sex
Becomes Selfless Sex By Our Focus
What we decide is important in our Sex Life by ...
1. Clearly Define it
2. Making it Fun
3. Following our Feelings
Sets up our Self-THRU Sex to be both Selfish and Selfless.
As a result, when we do what please us, it ultimately please the
intimate partner in our life.
If it does not, then we are still working do be aligned with our
ultimate Intimate Experience.
Ultimate
Intimate Experience
So our Ultimate Intimate Experience is a result of Clearly
Defining what we desire, Consciously Bringing God/Life/Energy into the
mix, and then have fun while we experience Sex.
Practice makes perfect too.
