More Freedom - Friends/Work Freedom
Friends/Work Freedom
First, we Free Ourselves.
Second, we Free our experience in our Intimate Relationship.
Third, we Free our experience with our Family Members.
Then we are able to Free our experience of our Friends and Work and
Community Members.
Our Thoughts
Can Free Us
If you are suffering through your experience with
Friends/Work/Community members, then there is something you believe
that keeps you suffering.
Free Your Thoughts and you Free Yourself.
Most often we suffer with Friends/Work/Community members because we
believe they should be the way we want them to be.
The truth is they are not the way we want them to be - they are the way
they are.
Can’t
I Change My Thoughts About Them And They Will Change?
Yes and No.
If you change your thoughts about others, but they do not change as you
envisioned, then “no”, you cannot change your
thoughts
about them and find that they change, because they do not change.
If you change your thoughts about others, so that what they do does not
affect how you feel, then “yes”, you can change
your
thoughts about them and they appear to change, because you have changed.
Am I saying that things only appear to change and that you have to
change?
Yes, that is exactly what I am saying, because on the surface that is
what takes place.
All Of Your
Life Only Appears As You Perceive It
Ultimately, you are the only one in your experience.
You are the only one Creating in your experience.
Every other person, place, thing, and experience you interact with
allows you to Choose who and what you are in each and every moment.
Every other person in your experience that you like - reveals a part of
yourself (sometimes undiscovered) that you like about you.
Every other person in your experience that you do not like - reveals a
part of yourself (sometimes undiscovered) that you do not like about
you.
All Of Life Is
A Mirror Of Your Beliefs
If you Believe that your financial picture is a struggle -
Voila
your life experience of your financial picture continues to be a
struggle.
If you Believe that your Friends are flaky and inconsistent - Voila,
your life experience of your friends continues to be flaky and
inconsistent.
If you Believe that your Boss is a unrewarding task master - Voila,
your life experience of any Boss continues to be that of the
unrewarding task master.
If You Are
Experiencing Something In Your Life - You Believe It On Some Level
If you are experiencing a cheating partner - you believe
in cheating partners on some level.
If you are experiencing a jealous friends - you believe in jealous
friends on some level.
If you are experiencing egotistical coworkers - you believe in
egotistical coworkers on some level.
If you are experiencing violent community members - you believe in
violent community members on some level.
You Can Love
Whatever You Are Experiencing To Free Yourself
If you see something in your experience, you believe it,
and you can love that belief into Freeing yourself.
If you see a jealous friend, you believe in jealous friends (or you
would not see it as jealousy), and you can love that BELIEF in jealous
friends to Create a peaceful space of Freedom.
See: Jealous Friend
Say to yourself in your mind: “I love and approve of my
Belief in a jealous friend.”
Then say in your mind: “I lovingly Bless and Release this
Belief
in a jealous friend as I no longer need it to feel Whole and
Complete.”
Finally and completely know: You have transformed your Belief so that
it Frees you. You took on this belief at some time in your life,
because it allowed you to blame others for the way you felt without
having to deal with the way you felt. Now, you are ready to deal with
the ways you feel to make your transformation real.
Is This
Transformation Real?
It you Lovingly Bless and Release your Beliefs that no
longer
serve you, and you feel better or a sense of relief, then your
transformation is real.
Your mind does not know the difference between what you imagine and
what you experience.
If you believe something - you will experience that something in your
life.
The Challenge
With Belief . . .
Is that too often we THINK we believe something - even
though our experience show us otherwise.
If you experience it (see it) then you believe it at some level.
That is the reason that so many people hear about the ideas of Creating
their own experience, and quickly come to the conclusion that it does
not work because they can not demonstrate it effectively in all the
ways they wish to experience Manifestation.
Effectively
Demonstrate Manifestation
It is easier to Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation
through Creating Simple things that you have total control over.
“I want a glass of water.” => Voila, you
walk over to
the cupboard, grab a glass and fill it with water = Effectively
Demonstrate Manifestation.
It is more challenging to Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation through
Creating Complex things that you do not have total control over.
“I want to be rich and philanthropic.” =>
Voila, you
work and work for years to change your beliefs, your actions, your
feelings, your thoughts - and still it does not happen - you take
classes, you get a mentor, you work with the best in the field - and
still it does not happen - years pass and you get to a point where you
have reached a level of success around your Manifestation, but it has
gone on for too long and you Give Up - Surrender - Let Go and Let God -
and Voila = Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation and people say
“You are an over night success story.” And you
chuckle
knowing that it took 5 or 10 or 20 or 40 years.
Friends/Work/Community
Members
They all help us to Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation
by
allowing us to see what we believe about life AND helping us to Choose
what We wish to believe and See about life.
What if . . . What if every person, place, thing, and experience is
their for you to Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation?
That is the reason you experience anything.
Everything in your life is their to help you build the abilities to
Create The Life of Your Dreams.
Especially the things that challenge us the most.
Our suffering is self induced.
So is our Freedom.
