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More Freedom - Friends/Work Freedom                      

Friends/Work Freedom


First, we Free Ourselves.

Second, we Free our experience in our Intimate Relationship.

Third, we Free our experience with our Family Members.

Then we are able to Free our experience of our Friends and Work and Community Members.

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Our Thoughts Can Free Us


If you are suffering through your experience with Friends/Work/Community members, then there is something you believe that keeps you suffering.

Free Your Thoughts and you Free Yourself.

Most often we suffer with Friends/Work/Community members because we believe they should be the way we want them to be.

The truth is they are not the way we want them to be - they are the way they are.

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Can’t I Change My Thoughts About Them And They Will Change?


Yes and No.

If you change your thoughts about others, but they do not change as you envisioned, then “no”, you cannot change your thoughts about them and find that they change, because they do not change.

If you change your thoughts about others, so that what they do does not affect how you feel, then “yes”, you can change your thoughts about them and they appear to change, because you have changed.

Am I saying that things only appear to change and that you have to change?

Yes, that is exactly what I am saying, because on the surface that is what takes place.

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All Of Your Life Only Appears As You Perceive It


Ultimately, you are the only one in your experience.

You are the only one Creating in your experience.

Every other person, place, thing, and experience you interact with allows you to Choose who and what you are in each and every moment.

Every other person in your experience that you like - reveals a part of yourself (sometimes undiscovered) that you like about you.

Every other person in your experience that you do not like - reveals a part of yourself (sometimes undiscovered) that you do not like about you.

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All Of Life Is A Mirror Of Your Beliefs


If you Believe that your financial picture is a struggle - Voila your life experience of your financial picture continues to be a struggle.

If you Believe that your Friends are flaky and inconsistent - Voila, your life experience of your friends continues to be flaky and inconsistent.

If you Believe that your Boss is a unrewarding task master - Voila, your life experience of any Boss continues to be that of the unrewarding task master.

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If You Are Experiencing Something In Your Life - You Believe It On Some Level


If you are experiencing a cheating partner - you believe in cheating partners on some level.

If you are experiencing a jealous friends - you believe in jealous friends on some level.

If you are experiencing egotistical coworkers - you believe in egotistical coworkers on some level.

If you are experiencing violent community members - you believe in violent community members on some level.

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You Can Love Whatever You Are Experiencing To Free Yourself


If you see something in your experience, you believe it, and you can love that belief into Freeing yourself.

If you see a jealous friend, you believe in jealous friends (or you would not see it as jealousy), and you can love that BELIEF in jealous friends to Create a peaceful space of Freedom.

See: Jealous Friend
Say to yourself in your mind: “I love and approve of my Belief in a jealous friend.”
Then say in your mind: “I lovingly Bless and Release this Belief in a jealous friend as I no longer need it to feel Whole and Complete.”
Finally and completely know: You have transformed your Belief so that it Frees you. You took on this belief at some time in your life, because it allowed you to blame others for the way you felt without having to deal with the way you felt. Now, you are ready to deal with the ways you feel to make your transformation real.

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Is This Transformation Real?


It you Lovingly Bless and Release your Beliefs that no longer serve you, and you feel better or a sense of relief, then your transformation is real.

Your mind does not know the difference between what you imagine and what you experience.

If you believe something - you will experience that something in your life.

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The Challenge With Belief . . .


Is that too often we THINK we believe something - even though our experience show us otherwise.

If you experience it (see it) then you believe it at some level.

That is the reason that so many people hear about the ideas of Creating their own experience, and quickly come to the conclusion that it does not work because they can not demonstrate it effectively in all the ways they wish to experience Manifestation.

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Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation


It is easier to Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation through Creating Simple things that you have total control over.

“I want a glass of water.” => Voila, you walk over to the cupboard, grab a glass and fill it with water = Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation.

It is more challenging to Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation through Creating Complex things that you do not have total control over.

“I want to be rich and philanthropic.” => Voila, you work and work for years to change your beliefs, your actions, your feelings, your thoughts - and still it does not happen - you take classes, you get a mentor, you work with the best in the field - and still it does not happen - years pass and you get to a point where you have reached a level of success around your Manifestation, but it has gone on for too long and you Give Up - Surrender - Let Go and Let God - and Voila = Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation and people say “You are an over night success story.” And you chuckle knowing that it took 5 or 10 or 20 or 40 years.

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Friends/Work/Community Members 


They all help us to Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation by allowing us to see what we believe about life AND helping us to Choose what We wish to believe and See about life.

What if . . . What if every person, place, thing, and experience is their for you to Effectively Demonstrate Manifestation?

That is the reason you experience anything.

Everything in your life is their to help you build the abilities to Create The Life of Your Dreams.

Especially the things that challenge us the most.

Our suffering is self induced.

So is our Freedom.

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