More Love - More Intimate Love
More Intimate
Love
What You Focus On Becomes Your
Life!
This
concept, more than any other is the key to your life in all of your
Relationship Rings.
If Love is your Focus in your Core Relationship with God/Life/Energy,
everywhere you look you will see Love. Every expression of
God/Life/Energy as the people, places, things, and experiences of your
life will always and only be Love.
We only experience what we Focus upon in our life. All of
God/Life/Energy plays out our Deepest Heartfelt Most Secret Beliefs
about life for us to live.
Our Beliefs can be unconscious or Conscious. Conscious Beliefs are a
lot more enjoyable, because we Accept Responsibility for whatever is in
our life, and more importantly, what we are now going to do is
reference to what is Now Here in our life.
Core Love
=> Intimate Love
The More Core Love we foster and encourage and support,
the More
Intimate Love we experience as a natural progression from the primary
part of our life experience.
Everything we experience comes through our perceptions within our Core.
When our Core is full of Love, the Rose Colored Glasses of Love
influence all our Relationship Rings. ‘Rose Colored
Glasses’ have been used as a term to describe anyone who does
not
see the world realistically, but I would suggest that it is a way to
envision the world clearly to Create what you desire.
I do not suggest that you accept a wooden nickle when it is given to
you because you see the world idealistically. I am suggesting that your
view of the world can transform something that can be perceived in
anyway that you choose because
What
you Focus on becomes your life.
Experience is Neutral.
Perception is Everything.
By example, since we are discussing More Intimate Love, one day you
come home to find your partner/spouse is not at home. The home is in a
state of disarray, you discover a piece of paper in the kitchen beside
the phone. In your partner/spouse’s handwriting is the name
of
your best friend and a bunch of hearts. When you pick up the phone, you
discover that there are messages on it, you listen to the first message
and you discover a message from your best friend that says,
“I’ll be there when you are alone. You
don’t have to
worry. We won’t be discovered.”
What Is The
Reality Of This Example?
The Reality of this example is What you Focus on becomes
your life.
Do you look at the ‘Reality’ of this note with
hearts and the phone message as tell tale signs of betrayal?
Do you wear ‘Rose Colored Glasses’ and know that
this will
clear up and that your Intimate Love is strong, knowing that a simple
explanation of a surprise party is being planned?
Only you know what you would do in this case. Only you know what your
thought would be in this example.
What You Focus Upon
Becomes Your Life.
Strong Core
Love => Strong Intimate Love
Most every challenge in Relationship stems less from what
appears to be in any situation and more from what we Choose to Believe
in any situation.
When we Feel a deep sense of fear and distrust for All of Life, we
easily open to the possible bad in whatever is present in our life. We
listen to the voice of our ego (emotionally guided opinions) telling us
all the possible things that may be going wrong in any situation.
When we Feel a deep sense of Love and Appreciation for All of Life, we
easily open to the possible good in whatever is present in our life. We
listen to the voice of God (Giving Ongoing Direction) reminding us of
all the possible things that may be going right in this situation.
The stronger our Core Love is the stronger Love in all our Relationship
Rings is.
Challenges In
Intimate Relationships
The Challenges we experience in our Intimate Relationships
are a
result of our Beliefs about whatever is present in our Intimate
Relationships.
We may choose to believe that it is whatever our partner/spouse is
doing (or is not doing) that is the cause of what we are experiencing,
however it is always and only our Creations unfolding.
If we Choose to leave this Intimate Relationship in the hopes of
discovering a new Relationship minus the bad of the previous
Relationship, we invariably discover ourselves in a new relationship
saying something like, ‘They are just like our previous
relationship. They keep doing this to me.’
This form of blame, leaves us in a place of oblivion to our Creative
Power.
Whatever Challenge we experience in Intimate Relationships -
WE ARE ALWAYS THERE!
Success In
Intimate Relationships
Whatever Success we experience in Intimate Relationships -
WE ARE ALWAYS THERE!
Only when we are Aware that we are always there with our Challenges and
Successes, can we be Honest and take Responsibility for our Ability to
Choose what we wish to experience.
If you are experiencing challenges in Intimate Relationships, you are
ready to know that the challenges you are experiencing have absolutely
nothing to do with the other person in the Relationship. If you are
very emotionally involved in the situation, it maybe hard to see and
hear that Right Now. You only experience your life through your
perception. Unless and until you change your perception on life, you
will continue to experience your perception in your life.
What You TRULY
Expect Is What You Get
What you think regularly. What you Truly Believe - your
deepest
heartfelt most secret beliefs - Set Your Creation Vibration of
Expectation.
If you Truly Expect without a doubt your partner/spouse is a pain - you
experience that.
If you Truly Expect without a doubt your partner/spouse is a Joy - you
experience that.
If you Truly Expect without a doubt your partner/spouse is cheating -
you experience that.
If you Truly Expect without a doubt your partner/spouse is a Helpful -
you experience that.
If you Truly Expect without a doubt your partner/spouse is
uncooperative - you experience that.
If you Truly Expect without a doubt your partner/spouse is a Loving
Nurturing Partner - you experience that.
If you Truly Expect without a doubt your partner/spouse is a challenge
- you experience that.
If you Truly Expect without a doubt your partner/spouse is a Success -
you experience that.
If you Truly Expect without a doubt your partner/spouse is lazy - you
experience that.
If you Truly Expect without a doubt your partner/spouse is Incredible -
you experience that.
Not what you wish.
You always and only experience what you truly expect.
What do you believe about your Intimate Relationships?
They are whatever you believe. This is not an instantaneous experience.
This is something that is built through sustained Focus.
What you Focus on becomes your life.
Something you say once, rarely comes to pass.
Something you say continually, usually comes to pass.
Look at your life. Your life is the Manifestation of your thoughts +
your beliefs = your expectations.
If a situation goes too far in a direction you wish it had not,
sometimes it is effective to start over, sometimes it is more effective
to stick it out. Only you know in Relationship to where you are.
Either way always know that ...
You Take Your
Focus With You
For all the
bad
experiences of your life - YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE!
For all the
good
experiences of your life - YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE!
The fun part of Intimate Relationships is the Co-Creation Aspect.
You don’t need anyone but yourself to Create anything you
Choose
in your life, but it is sure a Joy to Co-Create with others.
“Where two or more are gathered in my name, there I
am.”
When you would like to Create something with your partner/spouse, you
allow for an incredible outpouring of God/Life/Energy into your shared
experience. It is wonderful to Focus Together, Think Together, Feel
Together, and Talk Together to Focus God/Life/Energy into your shared
life experience.
Even more empowering is Focusing God/Life/Energy through you for the
purpose of God/Life/Energy, while letting God/Life/Energy Manifest Your
Dreams in even Greater Forms than you have ever Imagined.
Let your life together be an example of the Pure Potential of
God/Life/Energy in human form and Enjoy all that comes through your
experience as you embody the Love, Success, Abundance, Peace, Health,
Joy, Freedom, Fun, Sex, and Wealth of God/Life/Energy in your life.
What
If My Partner Does Not Agree With Me Or Worse Leaves Me?
When you Consciously Choose your Core Beliefs, your
Creation
Vibration Attracts/Creates the people, places, things, and experiences
that Match your Core Beliefs.
Sometimes your partner/spouse will not see eye-to-eye on a variety of
issues. You cannot force them to Choose the same as you, they cannot
force you to Choose the same as them.
If at a Core Level your Beliefs differ from your partner/spouse, either
you or they or both of you will want out of the Relationship. This is
not a failure of you, your partner/spouse, or your Relationship. This
is a Choice for the type of Relationship you want.
The best way to move apart or stay together is to do so joyfully. When
you are joyful, your Relationships will flourish either in the present
form or in a new form, because your Creation Vibration in this case is
Set to experience More Joy.
It is the struggle or fighting when a relationship ends that Sets your
Creation Vibration to experience more struggle or fighting with this
dissolving Intimate Relationship, and your next Intimate Relationship.
Live in Peace and Joy, and Peace and Joy shall inform your entire life.
